Chand Fiza Kitnee Mohabbat Hai?
June 19th 2009 04:16
Chand and Fiza are together again but only time will tell kitnee mohabbat hai between the former Dy CM of Haryana and his government counsel. Love prevails, Chand and Fiza are reunited. Or so it seems for the time being. Has it really happened? Has Chand really gone back to his lady love Fiza whom he had abandoned. If psychologists are to be believed Chand is right now going through guilt pangs and wishes to be reunited with his lady love whom he feels he betrayed by abandoning her to her fate after using her to satisfy his lust. This is what post divorce syndrome is like they say.
Family court lawyers too believe there is something called post divorce syndrome when the divorce takes place too suddenly. In India this normally does not happen because the procedure for obtaining a contested divorce is very cumbersome and lengthy and the legal process can take up to several years. In the case of a divorce by mutual consent it happens in 6 months among Hindus.
Post divorce syndrome has led to many families patching up after the divorce and even calling off the proceedings on the last day, but this is a very rare phenomenon. Normally it has been found that once a man is attracted to a younger woman who is much sexier and who looks up to him in admiration he decides to leave the older woman. The desire for sex is usually in the background of such decisions. As our society becomes more liberal more and more such cases will take place. This situation is becoming more and more common among the rich class of big metros like Delhi and Mumbai where leaving the first wife for the sake of a younger and sexier bed partner is becoming more common.
While we can never say for sure why Chand and Fiza are together and how long it will last, for we are not sure Kitnee Muhobbat Hai, but one thing is certain the couple are living together again. And the matter rests there.
Such situations are very common in Delhi today say sociologists who have come across several cases of people working together who decide to dump their existing spouses and move in with each other. People suddenly begin to find flaws in their existing partners as they find they do not have much in common with them. For example artists will find a lot more in common with artists, similarly with journalists and so on. Therefore couples working in one field find it easier to be attracted to each other. But this lasts as long as they are working together for once monogamy is discarded and promiscuity becomes the norm the desire to experiment with new partners only grows.
Family court lawyers too believe there is something called post divorce syndrome when the divorce takes place too suddenly. In India this normally does not happen because the procedure for obtaining a contested divorce is very cumbersome and lengthy and the legal process can take up to several years. In the case of a divorce by mutual consent it happens in 6 months among Hindus.
While we can never say for sure why Chand and Fiza are together and how long it will last, for we are not sure Kitnee Muhobbat Hai, but one thing is certain the couple are living together again. And the matter rests there.
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